Family Law Facilitator's Office (FLF)
The FLF helps people without an attorney at no cost, with forms and general legal information. Its attorneys are neutral court employees who do not represent any party and may help both sides.
Official source ↗Divorce · San Diego, San Diego County
Divorce cases in San Diego are handled by the family law courts of the Superior Court of California, County of San Diego, with Family Court Services located at the Central, East County, South County and North County courthouses. San Diego is a recommending county for custody: if parents do not agree, a counselor makes a recommendation to the court. This page explains filing, the free Family Law Facilitator's Office and custody counseling before you speak with an independent family-law attorney licensed in California.
The FLF helps people without an attorney at no cost, with forms and general legal information. Its attorneys are neutral court employees who do not represent any party and may help both sides.
Official source ↗Family Court Services provides child custody recommending counseling when parents cannot agree on a custody plan. If no agreement is reached, the Family Court Counselor makes a recommendation and the hearing goes ahead.
Official source ↗Both attorneys and self-represented litigants can e-file in family law cases, including divorce, legal separation and annulment, subject to the court's listed exceptions.
Official source ↗The court's divorce page explains summary dissolution, dissolution, legal separation and nullity, with links to filing instructions for each.
Official source ↗The court's divorce page explains each case type, from summary dissolution to dissolution, legal separation and nullity, and links to step-by-step filing instructions. Family Court Services lists offices at the Central, East County, South County and North County courthouses.
San Diego allows electronic filing in family law cases for both attorneys and self-represented litigants, through the Odyssey eFileCA system. The court's Electronic Filing Requirements (Family) document lists what cannot be e-filed, and the court links to an online Guide and File interview that can prepare divorce petitions and responses.
The Family Law Facilitator's Office is staffed by attorneys, paralegals and clerks who help self-represented people at no cost through walk-in help, workshops and remote assistance. It does not help parties who have an attorney of record, and its staff do not represent anyone.
Where custody or visitation is disputed, the case is set for child custody recommending counseling before the hearing (Family Code §3170). If parents agree, the agreement goes to the court; if not, the Family Court Counselor makes a recommendation to the court.
Counseling sessions with a Family Court Counselor are held in person or virtually and last about 1.5 to 2.5 hours. The FLF also offers a Dissolution of Marriage Workshop video and suggests reviewing the Judicial Council divorce self-help website before drafting forms.
Before filing, one spouse must have lived in California for six months and in the county for three months (Family Code §2320). The earliest a divorce can become final is six months after service or the respondent's appearance (Family Code §2339). Statewide Judicial Council forms apply in every county.
Local information as of October 2026, general information and not legal advice. Court locations, hours and procedures change; check the official court page before you go.

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